tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1436604361793179169.post5682587643276503535..comments2023-03-04T03:56:50.797-08:00Comments on The Rainbow Room: Physical versus Emotional: A game of monogamyChanelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17877058968113836520noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1436604361793179169.post-24947606646352474582011-12-23T10:26:29.952-08:002011-12-23T10:26:29.952-08:00I think you can be absolutely in love with one per...I think you can be absolutely in love with one person, and have room to build emotional relationships with others. For example, I was deeply in love and attached to my last partner, but I also deeply loved and cared for my other platonic friends. I felt committed to those friends, and their actions/behaviors/emotions affected me similarly to how those of my partner would. Further, my intense love for my ex did not, in any way, affect the love I have stored away from my first love. That love will always be with me, regardless of what directions my life takes. I think humanity in itself is very complex, and different people are capable of different things. I have felt romantically in love with more than one person at a time, and both of those loves felt incredibly real and viable. Only one lasted, and its currently platonic, but like the plates of this earth...everything is always shifting, changing, moving. Monogamy is a cultural phenomenon and has looked different as it relates to geographic and temporal location. I think the main problem comes when we begin to project our values and ideals on others and claim that our mode of behavior is the only correct one. xoxoJezebel Delilah Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15888034249865794235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1436604361793179169.post-56911550146328592022011-12-16T09:23:41.178-08:002011-12-16T09:23:41.178-08:00@Sunny, yeah i dnt think u can be in love and not ...@Sunny, yeah i dnt think u can be in love and not be emotionally attached. But can u be in love and not be emotionally committed to that one person. Meaning, u have space to have feelings for someone else also.Chanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17877058968113836520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1436604361793179169.post-80809590948954354752011-12-16T07:34:34.469-08:002011-12-16T07:34:34.469-08:00Hmmm that's a good question...I don't thin...Hmmm that's a good question...I don't think you can be in love with someone and not be emotionally attached...thats seems a bit wierd. <br /><br />Being in love is an emotion and that would cause you to be emotionally attached right?Sunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00028731483399387552noreply@blogger.com